Reasons I may not forgive infidelity – Omotola

Stunning Nollywood superstar and mother of four, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde, who has remained married  for the past 21 years, is a highly revered woman, both for her talent and matrimonial success.

The curvy screen goddess who has repeatedly asserted that only her husband could handle her has dropped another bombshell that there are situations she may not consider forgiving her husband, including infidelity.

Omotola, made the daunting revelations in a YouTube exclusive interview with Broadway TV, speaking on issues bordering on feminism, cheating, her career and relationships.

“Every relationship is very peculiar. Should one forgive a cheating spouse? I would say if they are a first time offender, of course, one should forgive, especially, if they are remorseful and if they show sign of change,” she observes, when asked if one should forgive a cheating spouse or not.

“Should one forgive a repeatedly cheating spouse? The first question to worry about is, why are they cheating repeatedly. The problem with us these days is that we are not patient. The sin is very bad but the first thing we should do is assess the situation and the person in question. The questions are: who is this person really: is that the only problem? Is this person a perfect person and the only problem is cheating? You have to weigh your options.

For me, as a person, is this something I want to deal with? I have met a lady who told me she didn’t care what her husband does. You can’t judge other people’s relationship, only they, can decide what to do. If it is just about cheating and nothing else, one may be able to live with it but when the person is hopeless, that’s another matter,” she added.